Solomon Buchi, a renowned relationship expert known for his candid opinions, has recently shared some valuable advice directed at men considering marriage.
In his latest words of wisdom, he revealed that when a man proposes to a woman, he isn’t doing her a favor, and it’s crucial to drop the notion that women need marriage to fix their lives.
Buchi’s message comes for a common misconception; the idea that a woman’s life can only be complete or fulfilled through marriage. He stated that Nigerian men should stop watching too much nollywood where those kind of ideas sprout from.
When you’re asking a woman to marry you, you’re not saving her. You’re not taking away her shame; there’s no shame there. You’re not doing her a favour. Stop sounding like she needs to marry you to get life fixed, and if she rejects you, she won’t suffer, neither would she regret it.
You’re not the only great guy as you’ve made yourself believe. Reduce watching Nollywood too.”
This isn’t the first time Solomon Buchi has voiced his views on pressing issues. He recently shared his view point on the tragic passing of Mohbad and didn’t hold back in his criticism of the Nigerian music industry. He boldly pointed out that most Nigerian artists were cultists.
9jashow Music Media reported also that Solomon Buchi had offered valuable advice on maintaining successful marriages. Having tied the knot with his partner Arike earlier this year, he’s in a great position to share insights.
One of his key pieces of advice for married men is to always allow their partners to have their way when necessary. He believes that this approach fosters happiness and success within the marriage.
While some netizens did not agree with this advice, other married men agreed, stating that It was also what was keeping their marriage.